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Post by v on Jul 29, 2017 23:56:22 GMT -8
True. In regards to the thread title: Love eliminates fear, negativity, ego, hate, anger. Love is the opposite of fear, and not hate like many think it is. The reason is that love is the symptom of truth and that fear is the symptom of lies. There is only truth (love) and not truth (fear). There is no such thing as a half truth, because it is a deception and therefore a non-truth.
So, from the thread title, negativity, ego, hate, and anger are all fear-based. So in short; Love eliminates fear.
Without fear. Imagine it. A person without fear would be a true person. A person who is honest, present, reliable, predictable, reassuring, selfless, unconditional, allowing, forgiving, tolerant, patient, ... all the things that are free, gentle and soft, humble, and accepting. All these characteristics is exactly what truth and unconditional love is. Truth and love are one and the same. One is and the other its expression.
On the other side of the coin, where most people are (unawakened), are fearful. We don't have to imagine this. It is what we mostly see in life. Humans are a fearful species and its all due to an ego.
The ego cannot be rid of, only quietened down by accepting our truth. That is why, in spirituality, the humble and meek are the ones who have easy access to become truthful and loving.
Love is radiant. You can see it in people who show unconditional love. Their eyes are lit, they show youthfulness (life) even when old. They are honest, caring, gentle and soft.
Fear is contraction. You can see it in people who are conditional, greedy and wanting. Their bodies are under tension. In fact, they are bleeding off their own life energy. Shriveling up like a prune.
Awakening to such truths can reverse fear and deception to love and truth. The truth does set one free, and deception will enslave.
The only way to be loving unconditionally is to face and find the truth behind all our fears, to become truthful and be fearless about it. Then we become open, allowing the love and truth within us, to be expressed. The veils (cover-stories of the go) once covering the truth now reveals what the truth of reality is (uncreated light, or as some call it - God / Truth). In this regard, we are not here for the ego-self, but for the the purpose of revealing God /Truth in the world through those who are true and loving. It is their radiance which reveals God in this world. They are not God, but they allow God (uncreated light) to be revealed through their fearlessness (faith), truth and unconditional love. Using their body, expression, as a vehicle for God / Truth to be revealed.
There are not many in the world who are like this, but everybody who loves unconditionally expresses this. Many people who become selfless in love with someone gets a taste of what this is about.
Yes, love (unconditional love) eliminates fear.
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Post by v on Jul 29, 2017 1:22:36 GMT -8
Thank you WeAreOne for welcome and response. ...Personally, I think its hard for anyone to accept their dark side, because we are afraid of others judging us and turning us away from their love. if we cant accept ourselves in the perfect way we are, how can we expect anyone else to do the same? we are all perfect in our own imperfections. our fears and insecurities only dampen our light and weigh us down with the negative energy associated. I look at myself and my life and see things that I would like to change, things that have bothered me for years and that I strive to change them but it has been a slow travel. as long as we recognize that yes, there are some unsavory things about my life but I know it and I am working on it, that shows persistence and strength. we all can access that strength when we allow ourselves to it is about accepting and loving yourself no matter what, you have been though trials and you are still here standing. your perfect love light shining brightly <3 thank you for this question V, and thank you for opening up this discussion. we hope to see you back! Yes it is difficult, for the ego to face its truth, especially the stories which could easily be judged negatively and lower its self-esteem (lose of validation). However, one can face their so called dark side, expose it, make amends, and accept it. In that way it no longer needs to be a secret anymore. A life without secrets is doable. A life of truly knowing yourself by being self-honest to the very core, eliminates the fear of judgment, because you have already judged self to its core. So when someone judges you there is only two outcomes. If the judgement was true than we either say, "Yes I know", or " Thanks for pointing that out, I had not noticed that before". Or if the judgement is not true, then you know it has nothing to do with you. In either case, there is not threat, or reason to be fearful. By overcoming the fear of judgement, all other fears that result from negative judgement no longer arises. These are the fears of rejection, segregation, abandonment, and annihilation. In regards to being loved. This really is the prized validation of the ego. Most truths are back-to-front. Most people believe they need to be loved to feel okay. But the truth is that they need to be loving to feel okay. However, the loving needs to be unconditional or else their love has a conditioning clause to it, "If I love you, I expect a return for my investment - your love" (if not, then you don't love me, and therefore I will not feel okay). Unconditional love comes from being honest and true (no secrets, no deceptions, no wants or needs). The expression of truth is unconditional love. And unconditional love causes one to be true. Both truth and love share the exact characteristics. Both are genuine, reliable, real, unconditional, patient, persistent/unchanging. In regards to oneself as being perfect or not perfect, I see it in different terms. We are either true or not true. What is not true (imperfections) can be nullified by finding its truth.
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Post by v on Jul 29, 2017 0:46:09 GMT -8
Thank you WeAreAllOne for welcome and response. I would say a lot of people would like to say yes, but I feel like we all have our fears, doubts, and insecurities. That is a hard question to answer, and hard to gauge our own awareness of what we think it entails.... In the first part, I agree with you totally. In the second part, I would say that any tension, or uncomfortability, regardless of how subtle, comes from our ego. Our ego is nothing more than a fabricated story created by the mind to make sense of itself and to have an identity (a label). After all, that is the prime objective of the mind, to make sense of all the stimuli of the human organism. However, since the brain has no nerve-ends of its own, the mind cannot sense itself. So it uses the brain's memory of what the organism has sensed to create stories of validation. But the mind knows the truth, and that the ego really is not valid at all. That is why the ego is so busy always seeking validation. Self-esteem (ego-energy) is based on how much validation is currently believed in. Any threat, such as truth, will produce fear of losing self-esteem, or itself. Any invalidation (negative judgment) is the ego's main threat. People have murders others because of it. Jealousy, anger, guilt, shame, depression, etc, are all emotions stemmed from things not going the way (validation) of the ego. Actually, all our fears come from the ego.
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Post by v on Jul 27, 2017 17:15:54 GMT -8
Do you really accept everything about you? If not, why not? If so, how so?
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